Build Better Relationships

One of my all time favorite lines from a TV show comes out of an episode of Seinfeld. One of the main characters, George, constantly has relationship problems. Actually, all of the characters on the show have issues, but in this one instance George's girlfriend is breaking up with him. Needless to say he was expecting it, but she tries to give him the "it's not you, it's me" routine. Most would accept that and move on but George just can't leave well enough alone and begins to argue that if it's anyone, it's him.

As a salesperson, relationships will come and go. There will be some you nurture and watch blossom and then there will be some that no amount of miracle grow will help. But if you find yourself on the bad end of a breakup (career wise) more often than not, maybe you should take a good look at yourself. Maybe it's you!

Successful salespeople excel at building relationships.  Like in most relationships you will prosper if you're a giver rather than a taker. In this case giving refers to value. 

Are you having trouble sealing the deal with a prospect? What value have you given? Not promised. It's easy to advise the customer of what you can do once they sign, but you increase your chances at being more believable if you give some of your value for free. 

For example, as an insurance agent you have a chance to educate insured's. I've had many customers tell me that I've told them things that no other agent has. When you take the time in your pre-sale process to educate you build trust and rapport. Both are two of the key qualities needed for a successful relationship.

Another area of value that you can give for free may come in the form of networking.  You might not be able to help the customer at this time but you might know someone who can.  Why not explain to the client that you don't have the expertise or the market that will benefit them most, however you have a colleague or an associate that can help them? 

If you've been having a tough time transitioning your prospects to buyers, just remember, be a giver first!  By doing small things like helping a client network, or gain some education, you will invoke the principles of Liking and Reciprocity.  Both of these Principles of Influence will increase your bottom line and increase your ability to build stronger and longer lasting relationships with your customers.